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"Why the Hell Did No One Ever Teach Us This Stuff!" -Carl
"Everyone Needs to Know This!" 
- Amy
"They Should Be Teaching This in Schools!" - Diana
"I Have Been to MANY, Many Personal Development Events, and Hands Down, Stacey & Paul Blow Them All Away!" - Lily

 Here Is The Schedule And Sessions

Day 1

“Clarity & Freedom Day”

"I didn't realize how much I really needed this until I saw it!"
SESSION #1
Making the Invisible...Visible (part 1)
 8:00 AM PDT (11:00AM Eastern)
SESSION #2
Making the Invisible...Visible (part 2)
 10:30 AM PDT (1:30PM Eastern)

90-Minute Lunch Break

VIP SESSION: VIP Live Q&A Session with RU Leadership Team... (Only VIP Ticket Holders Are Allowed Into This Session)
SESSION #3
5 Tools to Breakthrough
 1:30 PM PDT (4:30PM Eastern)
SESSION #4
Decisions with Zero Regrets
 3:30 PM PDT (6:30PM Eastern)
SESSION #5
Clarity & Freedom Integration
 6:00 PM PDT (9:00PM Eastern)
Event Ends
 8:00 PM PDT (11:00PM Eastern)

Day 2

“Masculine & Feminine
Differences Day”

"Probably half of our kerfuffles were caused by these differences!"
SESSION #6
Masculine & Feminine Differences & Solutions
 8:00 AM PDT (11:00AM Eastern)
SESSION #7
Empowered Feminine & Interaction with Masculine
 11:30 AM PDT (2:30PM Eastern)

90-Minute Lunch Break

VIP SESSION: VIP Live Q&A Session with RU Leadership Team... (Only VIP Ticket Holders Are Allowed Into This Session)
SESSION #8
Getting the Results You Want That Will Last!
 2:00 PM PDT (5:00PM Eastern)
SESSION #9
Authentic Masculine & How It Interacts With the Feminine
 5:00 PM PDT (8:00PM Eastern)
Event Ends
 7:00 PM PDT (10:00PM Eastern)

Day 3

“Alignment & Influence Day!”

"Life Changing & Unforgettable!"
SESSION #10
Integration Workshop Experience
 8:00 AM PDT (11:00AM Eastern)
SESSION #11
Conversations Without Fighting or Giving Up
 10:30 AM PDT (1:30PM Eastern)

90-Minute Lunch Break

VIP SESSION: VIP Live Q&A Session with RU Leadership Team... (Only VIP Ticket Holders Are Allowed Into This Session)
SESSION #12
Alignment, Rapport & Influence
 1:00 PM PDT (4:00PM Eastern)
SESSION #13
How to Successfully Navigate Times When Masculine & Feminine Power Collide! (Her Storm, His Steel)
 2:30 PM PDT (5:30PM Eastern)
Event Ends
 4:30 PM PDT (7:30PM Eastern)

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You Can Never See it the Same Way Again!

It's Like Getting New 'Human-Goggles' For Life!

RBR Event Attendees Said...

"I'm Blown Away!"

"Life Changing"

"Mind Blowing"

"This Saved Us!"

"Why the Hell Did No One Ever Teach Us This Stuff!" -Carl

"Everyone Needs to Know This!" - Amy

"They Should Be Teaching This in Schools!" - Diana

"I Have Been to MANY, Many Personal Development Events, and Hands Down, Stacey & Paul Blow Them All Away!" - Lily

EVERY 10 MINUTES...

Nowadays it seems like you can't go 10 minutes without someone getting triggered or a disagreement causing division. 

We have endless technology at our disposal, and yet we're more divided than ever. Even with so many ways to connect at our fingertips, humans are facing a loneliness epidemic unlike anything we've ever experienced. 

The average divorce rate for first marriages in the USA is over 50% (and the number is even HIGHER for second and third marriages.)
Employees are leaving their jobs because they don't see eye to eye with their bosses or co-workers. People are struggling to find the peace, harmony, connection, and cooperation they so desperately want and deserve. The result? Relationships are ending and families are needlessly suffering. 
There's no shortage of relationship "advice" out there. …ALL of it old, broken GARBAGE that doesn’t work!

 The old & broken relationship advice & couple's therapy is JUST. NOT. WORKING!
And with good reason…

Because it’s all based on an OLD and broken relationship dynamic of the Win/Lose.

Who’s RIGHT?
Who’s WRONG?

Who’s being REASONABLE and who is being UNREASONABLE?

Then the person who is Wrong or Unreasonable (the Loser) is told they need to change (compromise).

And if they won’t? Then the only other answer is that either the “Winner” sucks it up and compromises or you separate because you just can’t agree.

Does that sound like a Rock-Solid Relationship to you?

Does that sound like the kind of LOVE & 
APPRECIATION everyone wants? 

It. Doesn’t. Work!

The Win/Lose Paradigm requires that someone LOSES each time.
COMPROMISE is just an arrangement to “alternate” who gets to win and who gets to lose each time. (like putting win/lose on repeat).

But that only means that EVERY. SINGLE. TIME. Someone is LOSING.

But even if you are the WINNER, doesn’t that mean that your spouse feels like they are constantly losing?

This dynamic can only go on for so long…

Most folks start AVOIDING certain topics that end up in a fight.

Their list of “we can’t talk about that” starts to grow. 

They are constantly trying to PREVENT a fight or argument. 

It can only go on for so long before someone GIVES UP.

Because no one wants to stay in a relationship where they feel like they are always losing (or always fighting not to lose). 

The old & broken tactics… DO NOT WORK. 

Luckily for you... Relationship Development DOES WORK!

IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT!

There's Been a Piece Missing This Whole Time!

Our Accidental Discovery...

The surprising paradigm we uncovered has been The Missing Piece in our knowledge of human relationships.

We demonstrate why the old relationship paradigm is broken, why couples work is actually destructive, and how our unique one-person methodology can be easily learned by the student to enable them to get the support, harmony, peace and connectedness they want.  

Through over 14 years of working with thousands of people... 

we have proven that marriage isn't a "mental health" or even a personality issue. 

Instead, thriving relationships are the result of a skill set that nobody else has been able to figure-out, until now. 

FINALLY!  

We're Giving You... 
'The Piece That Has Been Missing' 
All This Time. 

Personal Development for Your Relationships!

  • Do you want to feel more SUPPORTED?
  • ​Do you want more CONNECTION and less loneliness? 
  • ​Do you want the CONFIDENCE to handle any conversation with someone, without it erupting into a fight or conflict?
  • Do you want to MAGNETIZE people to you in life and in business?
  • ​Do you want less kerfuffle and more peaceful COOPERATION?
  • ​Do you want to be the best COMMUNICATOR in any room? 
  • ​Do you want to be the person who knows the most advanced level of development tools for any human interaction? 
  • ​Do you want to have more positive INFLUENCE at home and at work? 
The QUALITY of your relationships is impacting 
your experience of LIFE!
The peace, productivity, influence, support, trust, rapport and alignment you have (or do not have) with others... 
impacts your marriage, your kids, your work, your family...and your own experience of life itself.  
Plus RBR Gives You IMMERSION:
As Dr Bruce Lipton teaches, your "Relationship Reactions" are stored in the Automatic Pilot area of your brain. 

REWIRING that part of the brain requires more than reading and more than an IDEA... it requires IMMERSION (like you get at RBR). 

Over the years, the students who attend RBR have results that are FAR BEYOND those who do not go to RBR! 

BECAUSE... they get the IMMERSION difference!

RBR is NOT A COUPLE'S EVENT! 
The Relationship Development Method empowers you to single-handedly transform your relationship & bring harmony back to your home!

Ok, this is a no-brainer...
And, the decision is yours to make! 

I hope we see you at RBR! 

Stacey & Paul Martino

For Family, Spouse, Work, Clients, Team Members, Kids & All Relationships...

This is about Human-to-Human Interactions

After spending just 3 days at Relationship Breakthrough Retreat you'll be able to immediately apply what you've learned to create harmony in the most important relationships in your life: 

For Marriage...

Whether you wish to make a great relationship even better, rescue a marriage on the brink of divorce or heal a co-parenting relationship affecting your family, this event is the SOLUTION.  

The Martino's Effectiveness Ratings are Unmatched! 
In a 6-year study of student results, the students in their RelationshipU® program had Just a 1% Divorce Rate, for all 6 years! 

For Business Owners & Employees...

At RBR, you will learn how to effectively build rapport with a boss, co-worker or potential client, move a stale-mate to a win-win, increase influence, increase sales, replace drama with harmony and create alignment.

Whether your biggest pain is a team member that causes too much drama, people getting triggered from what should be a simple conversation or not getting enough people to say YES to you for your monthly sales number... the skills for interacting with people to get the results you want are in this event! 

Having these tools will make you the most effective and influential communicator in any room. 

Stacey speaking at Funnel Hacking Live

Stacey Presenting with Tony, Russell & Dean

For Parents...

You will finally get the answer to the biggest problem facing parents today…
"How can I get my kids to do what needs to be done, prepare them for the world and also build a solid relationship with each one of them?" 
We have been teaching our students the answer for 14+ years and deeply believe that every parent deserves to have this solution.  

In Just 3 Days, We’ll Give You The Fastest Path to Our

Personal Development for 
Your Relationships

Used By Our Students to…

Eliminate Kerfuffles, Solve Triggers, Navigate Successful Conversations, Build Rapport, Bridge Masculine/Feminine Differences & Turn Stale-Mates into Win-Win Outcomes

We've Hosted 14 RBR Events Over
The Last 11 Years! This Event Is Perfected!

Every Minute of Every Session Is Strategically Designed to Give You the Biggest Breakthroughs! 

Paul & Stacey are the ONLY Speakers, All 3 Days

Meet YOUR HOSTS

WE ARE THE "HOW" PEOPLE

STACEY & PAUL MARTINO invented their Relationship Development® Methodology and 100s of proprietary tools to empower anyone to transform their relationships, save their marriage, eliminate kerfuffles and create harmony in their home, work and life.

For over 14 years, they have helped thousands of people to transform their marriages, parenting, workplace and families! (all by working with the individual student.)

Through their profound work, the Martino’s have shown that couples work, doesn’t work; and that relationship is a skill-set and it can be learned.

The Martino’s have proven that it only takes ONE person to transform a relationship, ANY relationship!

STACEY & PAUL MARTINO

Creators of Relationship Development®

& Hay House Authors, The Missing Piece

During a 6-year study of student results, the students in their RelationshipU® program had a 1% Divorce Rate, all 6 years! Those results are unheard of and that's because...their methodology WORKS!

Tens of thousands of people have been through their programs and events. They have spoken to hundreds of thousands of people around the world. They have been featured by people like Russell Brunson and Tony Robbins, and have been seen on NBC, CBS, ABC and many other news outlets. And now you can finally get their solutions in their brand-new book, The Missing Piece, available from Hay House Publishing.

Relationship Development Org (RDO) is a mission-driven organization here to serve families and change the lives of children. RDO’s mission is to empower one individual in each family, with the Relationship Development skill sets to transform their marriage & parenting, break the chains of Demand Relationship™ and change the trajectory of their family’s legacy.

Stacey & Paul have been together for nearly 30 years, have raised 2 amazing kids and grown RDO through all the craziness of life. You can connect with them at RelationshipDevelopment.org

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#1 Event 11 Years in a row!

(See Why Students Come Back Again & Again) 

 Watch This to See Why Over Half the RBR Attendees Come Back Again!

How Can It Only Take 1 Person
to Transform Any Relationship?!

As difficult as it might be to accept that it only takes ONE PERSON... the truth is,

You already know it only takes 1 person to change things.

Think about it... If you want your kid's behavior to improve and you pick up a parenting book to learn something new. You don’t sit your 3-year-old down and say,

“Listen, you better read this book because your behavior stinks, kiddo!” (hehe) 

Nope. You read the book. It tells you “next time, try THIS when interacting with your child”
You do it and your kid's behavior CHANGES!

It’s actually the SAME dynamic in marriage, relationships with co-workers, family members, clients and others.

It’s just that no one gave you the 'Book Of Answers'... Until Now!

Every tool, solution and skill set in our Relationship Development methodology is designed for ONE person. We have PROVEN this for over 14 years, with thousands of students.

"You do not need anyone else’s permission or participation to create the relationships you want in your life!"

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Be Happy YOURSELF & Also Happy 
WITH OTHER PEOPLE!

Don’t listen to anyone who tells you to end your relationship, separate, create distance, cut someone out of your life, divorce or don’t be around someone.

All they are showing you is that THEY THEMSELVES just ran to the end of THEIR skill set and they have no idea how to help you.  

  • Personal development and self-growth is amazing. Paul and I are both massive growth people. 
  • ​AND... the more you do personal development it almost becomes a pattern of evolving yourself “in spite” of everyone around you.
  • It’s easy for your GROWTH to drive a wedge between you and others.  
  • People don’t like the change in you or feel uncomfortable with your growth. They don’t GET it. 
  • ​RELATIONSHIP DEVELOPMENT has been The Missing Piece in Personal Development.  

You Can Actually Be Authentically 
HAPPY Yourself & ALSO Be 
Happy WITH Others.  

  • Just because YOU have run to the end of your skill set....
  • Just because YOUR PARTNER has run to the end of their skill set...
  • Just because your mom, sister and friend have run to the end of their skill set...
  • Just because the counselor, therapist or expert has run to the end of their skill set... 

WE Have NOT 
Run to the End of OUR Skill Set!

In over 14 years of serving countless students and answering thousands of questions, we have NEVER EVER told someone that "there's nothing you can do" or that separation is the only answer. NEVER EVER!

We have never run to the end of our skill set and we have the results to prove it. 

Please STOP listening to people, who, even with the best of intentions, do NOT have the proven solution you need! 

Here's What You Can Expect

Relationship Breakthrough Retreat Day One: Clarity and Freedom Day

Get the CLARITY to see what has been MISSING &
The FREEDOM to leave behind the conflict, upsets & drama you don't need!

This is for EVERY relationship in your life... 
Your Marriage Relationship
Your Parenting Relationship with Each Child
Your Work Relationships
Your Family of Origin Relationships
Your Friendships
and... Your Relationship With Yourself!

Relationship Breakthrough Retreat Day Two: Masculine and Feminine Day

On Day 2, we’ll dive deep into solving the very real Kerfuffles caused by the differences in how Masculine & Feminine beings are wired and process. 

After 14 years of helping thousands and thousands of humans, we have found that at least 50% of all the Kerfuffles couples have in their relationship come from NOT UNDERSTANDING how the OTHER person is WIRED differently and processes differently than you do. 

NEITHER OF YOU IS WRONG! 
One is NOT better and ONE is NOT worse! 
AND... we are wired differently! 

It's time to SOLVE these Kerfuffles in a way that DOES NOT require anyone to CHANGE who they are! 

Relationship Breakthrough Retreat Day Three: Alignment Day

One of the biggest side effects of Demand Relationship is the LACK of alignment between partners on parenting, money, household, work, family of origin...and the list goes on and on.

Day 3 empowers you to get more rapport, connection, influence and BUILD OR REBUILD TRUST! And to create alignment...even when you don't agree.

Ohhh... you will also get the solution to one of the BIGGEST long-term love relationship issues every couple will face! This is the ONE that can TAKE DOWN a marriage! 

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For Over 14 Years We Have Helped THOUSANDS of Students, All Over the World, to Transform Their Relationships, Save Their Marriage, Create Harmony in Their Home, Work & Life...

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“Before Relationship Development, my husband and I were headed for divorce, and I didn’t really want that. Thank God for Relationship Development. Paul and Stacey helped us. Not only did I save my marriage, but it’s so much better than our marriage ever was before. Our kids are happier, there’s more rapport and systems in our home.” - KM
"Relationship Development has been the most impactful training for dealing with life I had ever gone through. It is tremendously freeing to see how with the Relationship Development tools I can shift the course of my relationships with others and self. Relationship Development is the best method out there to improve the quality of your relationships. What you learn there won’t be forgotten." - JS
“I shudder to think what my life would have looked like without finding Relationship Development. Prior to this, I had read so many books and attended so many workshops regarding personal development. And after a few weeks, I struggled to incorporate it into my life and just felt like a failure. Since doing Relationship Development, I have solved so many kerfuffles for our family. I’ve been able to navigate a lot of changes at work and have been promoted three times in my position.” - KS

The KEY To REAL BREAKTHROUGH Is LIVE IMMERSION 

What’s so great about a BREAKTHROUGH?

A BREAKTHROUGH is when you “break through” to a new comfort zone or a new level of development.

Once you have a breakthrough, you can OPERATE from that new level and live in the RESULTS of that.

You’ve left your old comfort zone and level of development and you do NOT slide back.

It’s no longer a massive struggle to get the results you want because it’s PART of you now.

 The workshops and trainings you’ve gone through with us so far have all been getting you ready for your BREAKTHROUGH, but in order to really live it out, you NEED a full immersion experience.
👉 You cannot get a BREAKTHROUGH while passively listening or reading.
👉 You cannot get a BREAKTHROUGH while multi-tasking.
👉 You cannot get a BREAKTHROUGH while dabbling.
👉 You cannot get a BREAKTHROUGH while you are distracted.
You will not ACCIDENTALLY have a BREAKTHROUGH in the middle of your regular day! Breakthroughs are designed and strategically created. Paul and I know how to deliver BREAKTHROUGHS.

"RBR is like a breakthrough a minute!" - Tiffany

It’s NOT Your Fault!

(No One Ever Told You This Stuff)

It’s NOT Your Fault!

(No One Ever Told You This Stuff)

Real Students. Real Results.

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Frequently Ask Questions

What if my partner doesn’t want to attend with me?

Your partner DOESN'T have to attend for you to see breakthroughs happen in your relationship. RBR IS NOT a couple's event. Relationship Development Method is designed for ONE PERSON to get the skill sets to create the transformation.  Our method is PROVEN! 
In fact, this program is JUST for you! This is NOT a couple’s program! We don’t do any couples work, because couples work doesn’t work!

What is the Relationship Breakthrough Retreat Livestream Event like?

RBR is a FUN, high-energy, transformational, LIVE online experience with me and Paul.
This is not a “sit in your seat” in front of the computer and fall asleep listening to a “seminar” kinda thing.
RBR Live is VERY interactive and FUN!

Livestream Event: Relationship Breakthrough Retreat®
DATES: April 24 - 26, 2025

The Daily Schedule guideline is as follows:
Start Time: 11:00 am Eastern (US Time)
End Time: 10:00 pm Eastern (US Time)
Days 1 & 2 might go a little later.

Day-Time Breaks:
We will have a (15-Minute) Mid-Morning Break, a (90- Minute) Lunch Break, a (15-Minute) Mid-Afternoon Break. (times are estimated)

This is the same as it is for our in-person events. Schedule is LOOSE. We will break when it's the right time to break. Stacey and Paul are focused on delivering your breakthrough. They will give you breaks each day. They will not keep to a schedule for it.

End Time: The end time listed above is a guideline. We will end the day when we finish. If Paul and Stacey need to go later to give you the result you want, then they will.

Just like at our in-person events...please plan to be fully present with us for the 3 days and don't make other plans during that time, so you can get the MOST out of the experience. Do NOT plan to "multi-task" during this event! Clear the decks and IMMERSE!

For our International Students:
Yes, for some of you, that will mean that this event is happening in the middle of the night. We get it. It's not convenient. Just remember that it is still more convenient (and a lot cheaper) then FLYING to Idaho from Singapore or Australia.

Yes, we have students who do this from all over the world. It's actually an OPPORTUNITY of a lifetime to be able to attend this live event without traveling from halfway across the globe!

And as Paul Martino always says "Comfort is not our standard". Remember, BREAKTHROUGHS do not happen INSIDE your comfort zone.

We’ve already tried therapy, and it didn’t work. Is there no hope for us?

Paul and I have already proven that couple's work is destructive to long-term love relationships. And we also believe that MARRIAGE is not a mental health issue. Don't get me wrong, mental health issues are very important and deserve attention and priority - it's just that MARRIAGE is not one of those issues. 

Relationship is a SKILL SET and it can be learned! 

We have helped thousands of students who have been through FAILED THERAPY! 
We have helped to save the marriages of countless students who were TOLD by a counselor, therapist or "expert" that divorce was their only option!

Our methodology is PROVEN to work! 
If anyone (therapist, counselor, coach, etc) has told you that there is NOTHING you can do for your relationship - they are INCORRECT!
All that demonstrates is that THEY themselves have just run to the end of THEIR skill set to help you. 

Please DO NOT give up just because someone else ran to the end of their skill set! What a tragedy that would be. 

In over 14 years, helping thousands and thousands of students, Paul and I have NEVER EVER told someone that there is nothing else they can do. We have NEVER told someone that separating or divorce was the only option. We have ALWAYS had a Relationship Development solution to offer them, to the relationship issue they were facing. 

Our results are unmatched! 
OF COURSE THERE IS STILL HOPE!!! Come to Relationship Breakthrough Retreat!

What makes Relationship Breakthrough Retreat different from the other marriage and relationship retreats out there?

This is NOT a couple's retreat. Couples work does NOT work. It turns into a blame-fest very quickly. We don't do any couple's work. This event is for YOU. That's the first difference.

Most importantly... the difference is in our proven Relationship Development® Methodology that actually works....

At Relationship Breakthrough Retreat, we will give you solutions & tools from our proven Relationship Development Methodology that has transformed thousands of relationships and families! 

In a 6-year study of student results, the students in our RelationshipU program had just a 1& divorce rate! 
Those results are unheard of! 

We invented our Relationship Development Methodology and the hundreds of tools in our RD toolbox! No one else can teach this. We've helped countless students for the last 14 years! Our method is proven. It works. 

AND... we have hosted over 80 live/livestream multi-day events where Paul and I are the ONLY speakers!! 
We've been hosting our RBR event since 2014! This event has been fine-tuned to deliver results every minute of every day!

There is NOTHING else like RBR. 

Can I really clear 3 days for an event like this?

Let me ask you this - how many DAYS, WEEKS, MONTHS, YEARS have you already spent STRUGGLING in your relationships????

Isn’t it worth clearing the decks for 3 days and getting this DONE?

If you own a TV, you have time. If you take vacations, you have time.

It’s WORTH IT.

Is the Relationship Breakthrough Retreat for women AND men?

Yes, 100%! Paul and I wrote this event together and we deliver it together... for all our students, masculine & feminine.  Our events and programs are designed for ALL HUMANS, of all genders and core energy (masculine or feminine). 

For the Masculine:
Over the past few years, about 35-40% of the RBR attendees have been masculine.

Paul will peel back the layers for you, from the masculine perspective, and give you the solutions to interact with your partner, who is wired differently than you are! 

Don't worry guys, we've got you covered!

Does the Relationship Development Methodology work for people in same-sex relationships?

YES! YES! YES!
Relationship Development Method works for all humans, including those in same-sex couples. 

While certainly a same-sex couple has unique challenges that they will have to navigate, a large number of challenges are the SAME in any long-term love relationship, regardless. You are still both wired differently and process differently and that creates the same kerfuffles that any other couple has to navigate. 

We have been blessed to serve our students in same-sex relationships to transform their marriage and family! 

What if my partner DOES want to attend RBR?

Great! They are welcome to get a ticket and attend the event. 

AND... Please DO NOT do this event "together"! It would be a huge mistake! 
If you treat our event or programs like "couple's work" you will damage your results (and most likely damage your relationship). 

If you both have tickets, you may both attend... BUT attend SEPARATELY! 
I'm serious. Attend from different locations or at least different rooms! 

If you are telling yourself "Nah, we can do this together", I'm telling you right now... the first time one of you gives the other one "A LOOK" because of something that Paul or I say... the whole day is going to start to go down the crapper. 

This is not my first rodeo. I've watched students attend my events for 14 years. 
Even in our IN person event, I tell people to SIT SEPARATELY. 
Then, usually within the first 2 hours of the event, I see the first Kerfuffle HIT the couple who insisted on sitting together. 

It usually goes something like this... 

Spouse A pokes Spouse B "Psst, you should write that down because you do that all the time." 
OR
One spouse is taking notes and the other spouse leans over and says "I've told you that a THOUSAND times, but when they say it, now you write it down! Geez!" 
OR
"You better write that down! You need to know that!"

And Boom... Kerfuffle-City!

So, please, for your own results, SIT SEPARATELY from your partner! 
Throw "couple's work" in the GARBAGE where it belongs and do this event as a STUDENT! 

If you were going to get a degree in Chemistry, you wouldn't drag your spouse to classes with you, so don't do that here!

All that to say - YEP, your partner can absolutely purchase a ticket and attend the RBR event! 

P.S. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE do not make YOUR enrollment contingent upon THEM saying YES to attending! 
This is FAIL POINT #1 in long-term relationships. 
Making your YES contingent on their YES. Lovingly, if I may, that old & broken relationship crap is how you got to the place you are at right now.  

Start implementing Relationship Development right now and COMMIT to come to RBR! 
Whether your partner wants to attend or not! 
DO NOT go running to them, telling them about this event and that "they should go"! 

Just get YOUR ticket. 
Inside the RBR Pre-Event training bonuses is a training class from me and Paul on "How to Talk to Your Partner Without Fighting". 
Promise me that you will WATCH that entire training before you bring this event idea to your partner. It's for your own good!

What if I get stuck going through the pre-work? Will someone be there to support me?

Yes, 24/7! One of your ticket bonuses is our Relationship Development Student Campus Private Facebook Group. 
Our RelationshipU Leadership Team will be in that group, 24/7, to answer questions, offer guidance and give insights. 

The RU Leadership Team has been trained by me to be leaders in our community. They have been through multiple years of our RelationshipU program and many of them have been through our RU Masters program as well! 

Relationship Development is designed to be done by individuals, not couples. But just because you're partner won't be doing this with you, DOESN’T mean you’re working all alone. You'll be surrounded by our tribe of Relationship Transformers® all doing the work with you!

Why do you curse in your programs and events?

In our content, programs and live events, we use ADULT language (cursing) as a strategic tool and because it's authentic for us.

The work that we do is beyond Relationship Education; we create Transformation.

One of the many methods we use to do that is to use real, raw language in our work. When people "polish up" their language, they "polish up" everything and they don't get to what's real.

We know how to get results. Our RelationshipU Program has a 1% Divorce Rate and a 99% Success Rate. We know what we are doing and we know how to get these results repeatedly.

There is cursing in our programs and plenty of cursing and adult language at our live events. (This will never change). We use cursing strategically, similarly to how a comedian would use cursing to create an outcome for the audience. Our cursing and adult language is never negative nor directed towards a person or group or in any way demeaning towards anyone.

Paul and I are no different on-stage or off-stage. This is how we talk. I would NEVER ask YOU to change how you talk for ME, and please know that I will never change how I talk for you. 

If it triggers you, we invite you to please consider this... Instead of asking the world to change to not trigger you, pull out the trigger so that you are not thrown around by it. No one should go through life having a FEAR OF WORDS.

If our cursing bothers you so much that you can't listen to us, then please DO NOT come to our events or programs. Of course, we encourage you to open your mind so that you, too, can get the benefits that so many others around the world already have! 

But that is absolutely your decision to make. 
As we say "Everyone lives in the results of the decisions that they make. There are no exceptions."

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Frequently Asked Questions

What if want to do this for my marriage, but my partner doesn’t want to attend with me?

This is NOT a couple's event. This ticket is JUST for you. You don't need your partner to attend. 
The Relationship Development Method is designed for ONE PERSON to get the skill sets to create the transformation.

What Dates Are Available? What If I Can't Make Those Dates?

We are holding this event 3 different weeks during the next 90 days. We will show you the dates in the Member's Area and give you the opportunity to CHOOSE whichever dates work best for you.
We do our best to offer this event one time each month, so that if you don't want to wait, there's an event to get into soon... or if you need time to get the days off, there's an event farther out. 
We will do our best to be as flexible as possible to accommodate you. As long as you have the possibility to dedicate 3 full days to RBR, we will help you get into the dates that work best for you. (If you cannot take 3 days off for this event, please DO NOT buy a ticket.)
If you have any questions around dates, please email our team at [email protected]

What is Your Return Policy?

If you do not want to attend RBR, please request your refund within 3 days of purchasing your ticket. 

What is the Relationship Breakthrough Retreat Livestream Event like?

RBR is a FUN, high-energy, transformational, LIVE online experience with me and Paul.
This is not a “sit in your seat” in front of the computer and fall asleep listening to a “seminar” kinda thing.
RBR Live is VERY interactive and FUN!

Dates for the event:
This livestream event will be offered 3 times in the next 90 days. 
You can PICK the dates that work best for you. 

The Daily Schedule is on this page above
Just like at our in-person events...please plan to be fully present with us for the 3 days and don't make other plans during that time, so you can get the MOST out of the experience. Do NOT plan to "multi-task" during this event! Clear the decks and IMMERSE!

For our International Students:
Yes, for some of you, that will mean that this event is happening in the middle of the night. We get it. It's not convenient. Just remember that it is still more convenient (and a lot cheaper) then FLYING to Idaho from Singapore or Australia.

Yes, we have students who do this from all over the world. It's actually an OPPORTUNITY of a lifetime to be able to attend this live event without traveling from halfway across the globe!

And as Paul Martino always says "Comfort is not our standard". Remember, BREAKTHROUGHS do not happen INSIDE your comfort zone.

I Want to Come to Your Event In-Person, Not Online, Can I Do That?

We appreciate you so much. Paul and I no longer host the RBR events in-person. It's not a fit for our mission, to serve as many families as possible, around the world. Hosting online allows us to offer this event multiple times a year, and invite people in for the low ticket cost you are getting here. 
After 15 years of hosting over 90 multi-day events.... we only do in-person events for our Advanced RelationshipU Students and RU Leadership Students. If you want to get into that program for in-person experiences with us, you can apply to get in. Check out relationshipdevelopment.org for details. 

If I may say so...if coming to RBR is about the enjoyment of the in-person event, the significance and what you want... you are doing this event for the wrong reasons. RBR is an opportunity for you to get answers that no one has ever given you before. Come to RBR for the results and evolve yourself to the next version of yourself. 

Our Business Wants to Send a Bunch of People from Our Team to RBR. How Can We Do That?

Either have each person purchase their book and RBR Ticket here online, or reach out to our team and we will be happy to help coordinate tickets for your group. 
Phone: 215-600-1720

Why do you curse in your programs and events?

In our content, programs and live events, we use ADULT language (cursing) as a strategic tool and because it's authentic for us.

The work that we do is beyond Relationship Education; we create Transformation.

One of the many methods we use to do that is to use real, raw language in our work. When people "polish up" their language, they "polish up" everything and they don't get to what's real.

We know how to get results. Our RelationshipU Program has a 1% Divorce Rate and a 99% Success Rate. We know what we are doing and we know how to get these results repeatedly.

There is cursing in our programs and plenty of cursing and adult language at our live events. (This will never change). We use cursing strategically, similarly to how a comedian would use cursing to create an outcome for the audience. Our cursing and adult language is never negative nor directed towards a person or group or in any way demeaning towards anyone.

Paul and I are no different on-stage or off-stage. This is how we talk. I would NEVER ask YOU to change how you talk for ME, and please know that I will never change how I talk for you. 

If it triggers you, we invite you to please consider this... Instead of asking the world to change to not trigger you, pull out the trigger so that you are not thrown around by it. No one should go through life having a FEAR OF WORDS.

If our cursing bothers you so much that you can't listen to us, then please DO NOT come to our events or programs. Of course, we encourage you to open your mind so that you, too, can get the benefits that so many others around the world already have! 

But that is absolutely your decision to make. 
As we say "Everyone lives in the results of the decisions that they make. There are no exceptions."

RBR IS A PROVEN EVENT

Here's What Relationship Development Students Are Saying...

"Relationship Development is a game changer. The tools shared will affect every (and I mean every) relationship, whether it’s spouse, parent/child, business, co-worker, neighbor. Each relationship can be completely directed in a positive,
uplifting, and loving way!” 

— Bryant V.
“I stumbled across Stacey and Paul Martino while searching for ways to start my divorce. I felt that I was trapped in a marriage that I didn’t sign up for, with a husband I couldn’t speak to without fighting.
Fast-forward a couple of years and I am the happiest I have ever been! I singlehandedly transformed my broken marriage using the Relationship Development Method. My husband and I talk every day about the topics that we used to fight about.” 

— Diana
“Relationship Development is the best thing I’ve ever learned. First, so I can actually love myself for who I am, and second, so I can lead by example and help my kids learn the same. I will be forever grateful to Stacey and Paul for helping me see things differently!”

 — Julie R.
“Stacey and Paul Martino are world changers! Relationship Development has taken me to my next level in every area of my life. It fundamentally changed the way I approach life, and now I have total confidence in my ability to skillfully navigate whatever comes next. Despite ongoing challenges, I am the happiest and most at peace that I have ever been. I am eternally grateful to Stacey and Paul for the skills
and tools they teach with such incredible talent, wisdom, and sparkly joy! They are among the most important people of our generation, and I most enthusiastically recommend their teachings to anyone looking to uplevel their life and evolve their soul. Thank you, Martinos, for all you do, and most importantly, who you are!”

— D.H.
“Before joining Relationship Development, my partner and I had been in a comfortable but stagnant relationship for seven years. We were content, but we knew something was missing. Relationship Development has completely transformed our relationship. We went from a ‘meh’ relationship to experiencing love, excitement, and a shared desire to make the most of our lives together. Bonus: Our daughters are witnessing the positive impact of Relationship Development. They see first hand how a healthy and fulfilling relationship looks like and the mindset/tools required to get there.”

— Hannan
“Relationship Development not only saved my marriage, but it also saved me! My marriage was in a shambles. We were fighting what felt like every single day, and I had become a version of myself I knew was not me, not who I wanted to be, and definitely not who my family deserved! Stacey and Paul helped me realize that there was a better way! They helped me to see and understand the dynamics that were
unfolding in the fights between my husband and I, and taught me tools to actually solve them! And it worked! I believe every human deserves this knowledge!” 

— Sarah
“Relationship Development has transformed me from the inside out! Everyone deserves to have this opportunity. Practical and transformative. This is worthy work!” 

— Renee R.
“Relationship Development has transformed every aspect of my life, from my marriage and parenting to work and family relationships. I can now say that I truly love myself. Life’s challenges haven’t stopped, yet my happiness level keeps on increasing. This method is something every human being deserves to know.” 

— A.C.
“Relationship Development has completely transformed my life. I first thought it was going to make my marriage better. What I have actually received has been an absolute gift! The level of peace and joy I get to experience every day is something I never thought was possible. This, from implementing the tools and strategies to become the best and most authentic version of myself possible.” 

— Amanda
“I was teetering on the verge of despair and divorce after years of trying everything I could to reconnect with my husband for a more fulfilling and fun marriage... yet everything fell flat so I was exhausted! Something was missing and it felt beyond my grasp! Then I discovered the Martinos and their Relationship Development methodology, and everything changed for the better! I am so much happier and have a stronger love foundation to role model a healthy marriage and home life for our son.” 

— S.K.
“By the grace of God, I found Relationship Development. With Paul and Stacey’s guidance, not only was our marriage saved, but it has become better than it ever was before. Our family is joy filled, connected, and there’s a newfound peace in our home. We no longer run to the end of our skillset quickly; we are consistently growing
together as a family and learning to navigate whatever comes our way together.” 

— J.S.
“Relationship Development transformed our marriage when political tensions were straining our relationship. By implementing the methods, I shifted how I approached our conversations, especially around politics. Remarkably, this change defused the tension, and my husband, without even knowing about the tools, became more relaxed and happier. As we celebrate 30 years of marriage this year, our relationship, which had been under pressure, is now stronger and more connected. Today, we’ve moved past the political bickering and rediscovered the deep love and passion that first brought us together.”

— L.W.
“Relationship Development has changed my life for the better. I didn’t know there was so much to learn about relationships until I met Stacey and Paul. Everyone needs to learn the Relationship Development skillset and take their relationships to the next level!” 

— Hillary
“It truly only does take one to shift the relationship dynamics. I came into Stacey and Paul’s program as a woman entrepreneur transitioning a family business to the next generation. I was determined not to mess up any of the relationships at stake either the marriage or adult parenting involved. The simple (but not always easy) Relationship Development tools were presented... it was a game changer in all the best ways once that missing piece was engaged.” 

— Anne
“I started learning the Relationship Development Method because I felt my husband and I could use a relationship ‘tune up.’ I had no idea the complete awakening that I myself would receive and that I would not just ‘tune up’ but transform myself from the inside out! Thanks to Relationship Development I have a much higher level of happiness and peace within, and all of my relationships have improved, from my
marriage, to my kids, my family, friends and even my clients. ” 

— Trisha
“Relationship Development has been the most impactful training for dealing with life I had ever gone through. It is tremendously freeing to see how with the Relationship Development tools I can shift the course of my relationships with others and self. Relationship Development is the best method out there to improve the quality of your relationships. What you learn there won’t be forgotten.” 

— J.S.
“Before I found Relationship Development, my relationship with my husband was okay, but we were bickering more, and sex was infrequent. With Relationship Development, I found a new perspective and saw my role in the relationship differently. We celebrate our differences now and kerfuffles are short lived. And our kids are in the teenage years and still talk and hang out with us!” 

— H.B.
“Before Relationship Development, my marriage was hanging by a thread. I was miserable and my husband didn’t even realize there was a problem. Now our marriage is stronger than it has ever been, and I am once again happy to be married. As we continue to work at implementing the Relationship Development method, life just keeps getting better.” 

— Melinda
“Relationship Development changed my life ...my entire life. I discovered my authentic self and deepened every relationship in my world. It has changed how I see others and given me so many tools and skills. And just when I think I have everything I need, Stacey or Paul delivers another tool or strategy, which helps me expand my skill set even more. And the best part is... my daughter has become a Relationship Transformer by watching me.” 

— K.V.
“When I remarried after my first husband passed away, I was sure this relationship was going to be easier, smoother. But there we were, 20 years later as my husband told me he had it and was moving out. I was desperate. I thought about couple’s counseling, but it didn’t work for my first marriage. And I knew my current husband wasn’t going to go to counseling. So, I gave Stacey and Paul’s program a try. And because of that, our marriage is the best it’s ever been and I’m so happy! Here’s the miracle—my husband has never participated in the program, isn’t interested inhearing about what I’ve learned—and it still works!”

— M.D.
“The Relationship Development method enabled me to navigate my divorce with grace and improved communication, while rebuilding a friendship with my husband to enable us to be the amazing coparenting team that we are today. I am a happier, calmer, stronger, and more empowered version of myself today because of these
teachings.”

— Debra
"With Relationship Development, I feel calmer and happier than I ever have.” 

— Lori G.
“Before I found Relationship Development, my marriage was at an all-time low. I really had no hope that things could get better and had chosen to move out of the house with my kids to start the separation process with my husband. In a few short months of learning about Relationship Development, I moved back home and felt a renewed commitment to my husband. Not only did Relationship Development save my marriage, but we are stronger than ever! I have never been happier and parenting our children together has gotten so much easier.” 

— Liz
“Relationship Development has changed the way I see life. I’m happier, more compassionate, and live life lighter than ever before. Relationship Development has allowed me to see the gifts/talents in my husband and children, and what I previously viewed as negative traits or a problem.”

— Lori
"Relationship Development has given me my life back. My marriage was hanging by a thread; our family was in much pain. I’m so thankful to Stacey and Paul for teaching me how to implement new tools and develop the skills necessary to ascend my life and relationships.” 

— Andrea H.
“I shudder to think what my life would have looked like without finding Relationship Development. I remember the enormous relief when I read Stacey’s words, ‘It isn’t parenting that you hate, it’s Demand Relationship parenting that you hate!’ And the magic isn’t just in the information she teaches, which is so revolutionary that it sometimes takes some time to accept, but the strategies to live it. Prior to this, I had read so many books and attended so many workshops regarding personal development. And after a few weeks, I struggled to incorporate those amazing principles into my life and just felt like a failure. Since doing Relationship Development, I have solved so many kerfuffles for our family. I’ve been able to navigate a lot of changes at work and have been promoted three times in my position (when I started was on the verge of elimination). And best of all, I’m able to create this without pleasing or bulldozing and I’m continuing to uncover my most authentic self.”

— K.A.
“The best part of using the Relationship Development Method is that only one person has to learn and implement it to transform their relationships. By using all of the tools and frameworks, I was able to bring peace into my household. Thank you, Stacey and Paul, for breaking down this method into pieces that make sense. I am so grateful to be closer to my husband and that we are raising our girls together as a team thanks to this work!” 

— Stephanie Z.
“Before we started the Martinos’ Relationship Development, my wife said that if something didn’t change soon, she was leaving. Then, my kids started encouraging her to leave. She was usually annoyed with me, and we fought all the time. Now our marriage is unshakeable, we have fun together, and we can navigate tough conversations.”

— Dave
“Math was always my favorite subject. Apply the formula and get a predictable result. Learning Relationship Development was mind blowing. Our home went from chaos to calm. It teaches you the formulas to get predictable results in your relationships with people!”

— Trista
“When I first met Paul and Stacey, I was living in a sad and angry version of myself. I was yelling at my kids and husband daily and held a high level of resentment toward my parents. After working through the Relationship Development curriculum and applying a few of the many tools available, I was able to see a difference. The levels of stress decreased and the peace in our home increased. I worked through past hurts and learned tools to navigate anything that comes my way. Relationship Development has changed my family tree and my kids get to experience a kinder and more authentic version of mom.” 

— R.M.
“I came to Paul and Stacey and Relationship Development broken and in victim mode. My main focus when I joined was to find someone to share my life with and to have better relationships with my two adult sons. And by using their Relationship Development system, Paul and Stacey helped change my life! Because I not only have achieved those two goals but have created an amazing relationship with myself! And I absolutely couldn’t be happier!” 

— Lisa
“Before I found Relationship Development, I was exhausted! I questioned if I ‘made the wrong choice’ in my partner, often asked myself ‘how did I get here, feeling unhappy and sad most of the time?’ When I discovered the Martinos, I started diving into their programs and pretty much every word they said. I was thinking, Wait. What? How come nobody ever told me this? Implementing the Relationship Development Method has changed my life. I found myself and was no longer unhappy and crying every day. I also discovered I didn’t make the wrong choice in my partner! I believe everyone deserves to know this. One of the best decisions I ever made!” 

— Jenny
“Relationship Development has, without exaggeration, changed every area of my life. Rebuilding the friendship with my former husband, so we can coparent as a team, I got what I needed to build a real relationship with my two grown children to an extent I didn’t even know is possible. They live Relationship Development every day! And the best: I got to know myself, I am the happiest I have ever been and it keeps getting better and better! There truly is no limit!” 

— Andrea
“Before Relationship Development, my husband and I were headed for divorce, and I didn’t really want that. Thank God for Relationship Development. Paul and Stacey helped us. Not only did I save my marriage, but it’s so much better than our marriage ever was before. Our kids are happier, there’s more rapport and systems in our
home.” 

— K.M.
“Relationship Development has made my marriage and our relationship so much stronger and better. I joined because we were heading into retirement, and I wanted more than just being with my husband and going through the motions. After implementing, I began to see changes, big and small, and every day gets better; my marriage is now fun, exciting, and passionate, and I love my husband so much. There’s so much more than just getting by.” 

— J.W.
Disclaimer: Our programs and content are not couple's counseling and are not intended as professional counseling, mental health, medical, financial, or legal advice. If you require such assistance, please seek the advice of a qualified professional.
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