What if my partner doesn’t want to attend with me?
Your partner DOESN'T have to attend for you to see breakthroughs happen in your relationship. They don’t have to do the Quick Start program with you, and they don’t have to attend Relationship Breakthrough Retreat. Relationship Breakthrough Retreat is a relationship transformation program - not couples therapy.
In fact, this program is JUST for you! This is NOT a couple’s program! We don’t do any couples work, because couples work doesn’t work!
What are Relationship Breakthrough Live Online Immersion Events like?
RBR is a FUN, high-energy, transformational, online experience with me and Paul.
This is not a “sit in your seat” in front of the computer and fall asleep listening to a “seminar” kinda thing.
RBR Live is VERY interactive and FUN!
ONLINE EVENT EXPERIENCE: Relationship Breakthrough Retreat®
TBDOnline Event Experience Schedule Details:
You will be participating in an Online Event Experience.
The Daily Schedule guideline is as follows:
Start Time: 11:00 am Eastern (US Time)
End Time: 10:00 pm Eastern (US Time)
Days 1 & 2 might go a little later.
We will have a (15-Minute) Mid-Morning Break, a (90- Minute) Lunch Break, a (15-Minute) Mid-Afternoon Break. (times are estimated)
This is the same as it is for our in-person events. Schedule is LOOSE. We will break when it's the right time to break. Stacey and Paul are focused on delivering your breakthrough. They will give you breaks each day. They will not keep to a schedule for it.
End Time: The end time listed above is a guideline. We will end the day when we finish. If Paul and Stacey need to go later to give you the result you want, then they will.
Just like at our in-person events...please plan to be fully present with us for the 3 days and don't make other plans during that time, so you can get the MOST out of the experience.
For our International Students:
Yes, for some of you, that will mean that this event is happening in the middle of the night. We get it. It's not convenient. Just remember that it is still more convenient (and a lot cheaper) then FLYING to Idaho from Singapore or Australia.
Yes, we have students who do this from all over the world. It's actually an OPPORTUNITY of a lifetime to be able to attend this live event without traveling from halfway across the globe!
And as Paul Martino always says "Comfort is not our standard". Remember, BREAKTHROUGHS do not happen INSIDE your comfort zone.
We’ve already tried therapy, and it didn’t work. Is there no hope for us?
Here’s what NO ONE talks about -some studies show that traditional couple’s therapy ends in divorce as much as 80% of the time! It’s just not working, and that’s not okay. Relationships and families are WORTH saving.
We are literally Changing the Way Relationship Is Done®️. The shift AWAY from the demand relationship model TO the Relationship Development®️ model has led to thousands and thousands of marriages saved, and our RelationshipU program has had a 1% divorce rate and 99% success rate over 6 years.
No one can touch those results. No one.
You see, the thing nobody tells you is that relationship is a skill set, and it can be LEARNED. And the Relationship Breakthrough Retreat immerses you into Relationship Development for three entire days, catapulting your relationship transformation forward exponentially!
What makes Relationship Breakthrough Retreat different from the other
marriage and relationship retreats out there?
This is NOT a couple's retreat. Couples work does NOT work. It turns into a blame-fest very quickly. We don't do any couple's work. This event is for YOU. That's the first difference.
Most importantly... the difference is in our proven methodology that actually works....
At Relationship Breakthrough Retreat, you’ll be learning the methodology that has transformed tens of thousands of relationships and families, and we KNOW it works because we LIVED it.
You see, I (Stacey) have been exactly where you are. I know what it feels like to try EVERYTHING to save my marriage. I discovered what worked and what didn't to truly transform relationships. And do you know what the KEY was?
It was ME.
I realized I couldn’t depend on my husband to change. The only thing I could control was myself, so I dove into learning everything I could about making me into the best person I could be.
As I changed and grew into the kind of person I was meant to be, Paul jumped back into our marriage too, and now nobody could ever come between us. We have unleashed passion in our relationship and have unbelievable ravenous sex - more sex than most people think is humanly possible. We have a beautiful family with two amazing children.
I had been the key to transforming my relationship all along. At Relationship Breakthrough Retreat, you’re not going to just be sitting and listening to Paul and me. You’re going to actually roll up your sleeves and do the work on yourself. That’s why it WORKS.
Don’t get me wrong... awareness and learning are excellent PARTS of the process. AND, if you STOP at “learning”, you will keep struggling in LIVING. That’s exactly why Paul and I designed our Relationship Breakthrough Retreat Live Online Immersion Event for you! In this 3-day immersion experience with us, you can BREAKTHROUGH to a whole new level.
Can I really clear 3 days for an event like this?
Let me ask you this - how many DAYS, WEEKS, MONTHS, YEARS have you already spent STRUGGLING in your relationships????
Isn’t it worth clearing the decks for 3 days and getting this DONE?
If you own a TV, you have time. I’ve you take vacations, you have time.
It’s WORTH IT.
I'm committed to doing everything I can to transform my relationship.
Are you committed to helping me get there?
With everything we've learned on our journey, we can't just sit back and watch relationships fall apart. Not when we can help.
We are a mission-driven organization.
For more than a decade, all we do in this organization is help families. All day, every day. Hundreds of thousands of people, all over the world, have been served by Relationship Development.
This is our 11th RBR Live Event. And the 55th LIVE event that we have delivered (we do many live events in a year). We have proven our commitment. Every year, we are still doing what we said is the mission of this organization. We're not just writing books about it. Covid didn't shut us down. We are not moving on to do some other "shiny-penny" idea.
Relationship Development. This is our mission. This is our calling. We will be delivering this message for as long as we are here on the planet and there are families to be served.
We get up every single day to serve everyday heroes like you who are fighting for their relationships and their families. It's our moral obligation to help people, because we know that if people just knew what we can share with them about Relationship Development®️, they wouldn't have to suffer.
Our RelationshipU Leadership Team is beside you, every step of the way through the Quick Start and the 3-day Relationship Breakthrough Retreat Live Online Immersion Event. It only takes ONE person to transform a relationship. You can do this, and we can’t wait to give you the tools, skill sets, and support you need!
What if I get stuck going through the pre-work? Will someone be there
to support me?
Yes, 24/7! One of the most powerful features of the Relationship Breakthrough Quick Start Program™ is our RelationshipU Leadership Team who is there to serve you every day!
These leaders have already completed the Quick Start, The RBR event and are students in our RelationshipU Year long program. They have been trained by me to be leaders in our community. Many of them have been through our Mastery program as well! They are in the private Facebook Community for our Quick Start and RBR students every day, to answer questions and provide guidance.
Relationship Development is designed to be done by individuals, not couples. But just because you’re encouraged to do the work on your own DOESN’T mean you’re working all alone. You'll be surrounded by a 7th power community who are all doing this work as well!
Your friends and family group may have known you the longest, but they're not really on the personal development or growth path. You NEED a community and support system that understands the journey you’re on. Your 7th power group is that support system.
- They’re the ones who will throw a hand out and pull you up to the next level if they’re further up the mountain.
- They're also the ones who will get behind you if you're not advancing to your next level of potential fast enough and kick your butt all the way to the top.
- They're the people who love to hear about the book or the program or whatever it is that you're doing. They will happily champion you every single step of your progress.
- And when you face challenges and kerfuffles, they’ll also be there to catch you.
Is the Relationship Breakthrough Retreat for women AND men?
Yes, 100%! Paul and Stacey designed this program together, and we've shared both the masculine AND the feminine perspectives and tools.
Over the past few years, about 35-40% of the RBR attendees are masculine.
Paul will peel back the layers for you guys and give you the tools to understanding the dynamic of bringing your authentic masculine self into the situation.
Don't worry guys, we've got you covered!
Why do you curse in your programs and events?
In our content, programs and live events, we use ADULT language (cursing) as a strategic tool.
The work that we do is beyond Relationship Education; we create Transformation.
One of the many methods we use to do that is to use real, raw language in our work. When people "polish up" their language, they "polish up" everything and they don't get to what's real.
We know how to get results. Our RelationshipU Program has a 1% Divorce Rate and a 99% Success Rate over a 6 year study period. We know what we are doing and we know how to get these results repeatedly.
There is cursing in our programs and plenty of cursing and adult language at our live events. (This will never change). We use cursing strategically, and for effect, similarly to how a comedian would use cursing to create an outcome for the audience. Our cursing and adult language is never directed towards a person or group or in any way demeaning towards anyone.
If it triggers you, we invite you to please consider this... Instead of asking the world to change to not trigger you, pull out the trigger so that you are not thrown around by it. No one should go through life having a FEAR OF WORDS.
But that is absolutely your decision to make. We encourage you to open your mind so that you, too, can get the benefits that so many others around the world already have! As we say "Everyone lives in the results of the decisions that they make. There are no exceptions."