COMPROMISE is just an arrangement to “alternate” who gets to win and who gets to lose each time.
(like putting win/lose on repeat).
But that only means that EVERY. SINGLE. TIME. Someone is LOSING.
But even if you are the WINNER, doesn’t that mean that your spouse feels like they are constantly losing?
This dynamic can only go on for so long…
Most folks start AVOIDING certain topics that end up in a fight.
Their list of “we can’t talk about that” starts to grow.
They are constantly trying to PREVENT a fight or argument.
It can only go on for so long before someone GIVES UP.
Because no one wants to stay in a relationship where they feel like they are always losing (or always fighting not to lose).
The old & broken tactics… DO NOT WORK.
Luckily for you... Relationship Development DOES WORK!